1. Pack separately for different parts of your trip

When I travel for business, I usually tack on a few extra days to do something active like hike in a nearby national park. I find that by taking two small suitcases instead of a single large one, I stay better organized and less burdened.

I keep my business clothes, papers, and laptop in one bag, and my hiking gear in another. I leave the suitcase I’m not using at the time in the rental car and easily carry the lightweight case with the equipment and clothes I need into my hotel room.

Sherill Berg, Indianapolis, Ind.

2. Read the fine print on your rail pass

You can often use it to save money on the other modes of public transportation.

With a Scandinavian rail pass, for example, you’ll pay less to ride the ferries. In Switzerland, a rail pass can get you free bus rides, as well as complimentary entrance to museums and discounts on funiculars and hotel accommodations.

Scott Berger, Pawling, N.Y.

3. Put freebie key chains to good use

No longer do the many key chains I get as advertising languish in a bureau drawer. I attach one or two at the ends of my luggage zippers. These extensions help me identify my luggage on airport carousels.

Sandi Brenner, Port Townsend, Wash.

4. “No early check-in” shouldn’t deter you

If you take an overnight flight to Europe and early check-in at your hotel isn’t an option, ask the concierge if you can store your luggage until later in the day and use the hotel gym’s shower.

You’ll be refreshed and ready for a day of sightseeing. Pack a change of clothes in your carry-on.

Ronda Burk, Celina, Tex.

5. Set up your own desk

Need a place for a laptop in your hotel room? Take the largest drawer from the bureau and put it upside down on the bed with the drawer front away from you.

This creates a perfect height desk for while you’re sitting comfortably on the bed (you can even lean back on the pillows), plus there’s side space for papers, and the top leans towards you for easy typing or writing.

Patricia Callahan, Flagstaff, Ariz.

Leave your own travel tips or feedback in the comments box below…

Which tourist site have you visited that really lived up to the hype and blew your mind with how amazing or beautiful it was?

For me it has to be the Iguassu Falls on the Brazil/Argentine border. Truly stunning.

Leave your suggestions in the comments box below…

Last month I asked where you would take the Great American Road Trip, and here’s what some of your fellow Mobal Members said (in alphabetical order)…

(You’ll notice that they’re catagorized in a miss match of states, cities and sites, but I’m sure you’ll get the idea. Also, where someone has mentioned more than one site, you’ll see their same quote repeated under each suggestion.)

See if your favorite is on the list, and if not, add it in the comments at the end…

1. Adirondacks

“Personal favorite, any of the various state campgrounds or small towns in the Adirondacks. Close enough to my home for weekend trips. Soul-calming respites from the rest of the world.”
Ed Tarney

2. Alaska

“It’s a toss-up between Maine in the Fall and Alaska. Both incredibly beautiful.”
Barbara Dickinson

3. Arizona

“A Road Trip to the Painted Desert National Park in Arizona. Serene, peaceful, kind of spiritual too.”
Pam

“Best vacation area : California-Idaho-Arizona-New Mexico”
Horst Masch

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

“The American Southwest especially the area around the four corners of Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, and Arizona. Monument Valley, Mesa Verde National Park, Antelope Canyon, Canyon de Chelly, Sedona, etc.”
John Urian

4. Californian Coast

“Maine coast or N. California coast. Sea to shining sea, and all that stuff.”
Ed Tarney

“Although I am from New England and partial to our coastline and islands for the perfect vacation, I found that my greatest U.S. vacation was driving the mid-California coast in a jazzy little convertible! From San Francisco and the wine country, through Big Sur and Carmel, down to Los Angeles — everything was perfect, including the weather. The Beach Boys had it right: “Fun, fun, fun!”
Mary-Jo

“Vermont or the California Coast.”
Jean

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

“Best vacation area : California-Idaho-Arizona-New Mexico”
Horst Masch

“There’s so much to see, that there’s no one answer. A perfect vacation is different enough from home to be an adventure, but not so strange that you feel threatened or actually are harmed. That behing said, Redwoods parks in California and Oregon most specifically, but the coastal pacific northwest as a whole.”
R. Keyes

“California and Hawaii coastlines are very beautiful and interesting. I love the Ocean and surfing so of course Hawaii is the best with the warm water. But for urban diversity and surfing LA is unbeatable! Honolulu is second with the tropical diversity and San Diego third with less diversity but the best mainland waves. Adios and enjoy!”
Kervin

5. Californian Wine Country

“I have lived all over the USA and the best places to visit are Charleston,SC, San Francisco, Napa/Sonoma, and New York City.”
Katherine Rogers

6. Charleston

“I have lived all over the USA and the best places to visit are Charleston,SC, San Francisco, Napa/Sonoma, and New York City.”
Katherine Rogers

7. Colorado

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

“The American Southwest especially the area around the four corners of Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, and Arizona. Monument Valley, Mesa Verde National Park, Antelope Canyon, Canyon de Chelly, Sedona, etc.”
John Urian

8. Eastern Sierra, California

We would take our dogs and travel to the Eastern Sierra. Our favorite spot is north of Bishop in a campground on Rock Creek overlooking Iris Meadow. Heaven!
Fran Roberts

9. Florida

“Fort Walton Beach, Fla., and region.”
Patrick

10. Grand Canyon

“Grand Canyon. Just impossible to describe or appreciate without your own eyes.”
Ed Tarney

“I’ve never been to the Grand Canyon so I suppose that is self-expalnatory.”
Andy Mathisen

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

11. Hawaii

“Although you cannot drive to Hawaii, there’s no doubt in my mind — Hawaii No Ka Oi! (”Is the Best”)

Wonderful weather, year ’round… Gorgeous scenery… Historic sites… Plenty to see and do (especially on Oahu, the major island, where public transportation is so good and so inexpensive that there’s no need to rent a car)…

You’re still in the U.S. but you’re in a truly diverse environment with allkinds of authentic food and cultural events presented by fellow Americans — whose ancestors just happened to hail from China, Japan, the Philippines, Korea, and Portugal as well as the mainland U.S.

Because there’s so much competition among hotels and restaurants, Waikiki has a full range of high-value, reasonably priced accommodations and shopping.

And, of course, since the good old U.S. dollar is the currency, you don’t even have to worry about exchange rates!”
Cherry C.

“California and Hawaii coastlines are very beautiful and interesting. I love the Ocean and surfing so of course Hawaii is the best with the warm water. But for urban diversity and surfing LA is unbeatable! Honolulu is second with the tropical diversity and San Diego third with less diversity but the best mainland waves. Adios and enjoy!”
Kervin

12. Idaho

“Best vacation area : California-Idaho-Arizona-New Mexico”
Horst Masch

13. Key West

“Key West. Leave an hour before sunrise, from Miami and drive down RT 1 as the sun is coming up. Fly back.”
Merle

14. Maine

“Maine coast or N. California coast. Sea to shining sea, and all that stuff.”
Ed Tarney

“Mid coast Maine (hands down) for summer and nothing beats Key West for Feb/March.”
Leah Syndell

“It’s a toss-up between Maine in the Fall and Alaska. Both incredibly beautiful.”
Barbara Dickinson

15. Massachusetts

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

16. Miami

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

17. Montana

“Glacier National Park, Montana”
Machell Apple

18. Monterey Peninsula

“Monterey Peninsula, California staying in Pacific Grove, being with the ocean and the bay, prowling over Steinbeck Country.”
Jane

“I love Monterey and the famous and beautiful coastline & history.”
Andy Mathisen

19. National Bison Range

“Combine Yellowstone Natl Park for its animals, geology and excitement with the peace and serenity of the National Bison Range outside Missoula MT. Yellowstone is truly one of the great places of the world, but it has lots of people during prime viewing season. After enjoying the fun and excitement, move about an hour west and find rolling hills and easily viewed wildlife (bison, elk, deer, etc) in an area visited by very few.”
Carol

20. New Jersey

“Island Beach State Park, NJ.

Nothing compares to the Jersey Shore in Summer. Island Beach State Park has the classic dunes and isolated atmosphere to make for a great day at the shore. While there are the crowded areas near the pavilions, I head for one of the several spots with limited parking and a short walk through the dunes to a more isolated location. Pack a lunch and spend the day. You can’t do that at most shore locations since they prohibit food and beverage to be brought in. You need to arrive early since the park has limited access. Especially come early if you want to get one of the prime isolated parking spots (my first choice). There is a small daily vehicle fee, but well worth it.”
John Beck

21. New Mexico

“Best vacation area : California-Idaho-Arizona-New Mexico”
Horst Masch

“The American Southwest especially the area around the four corners of Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, and Arizona. Monument Valley, Mesa Verde National Park, Antelope Canyon, Canyon de Chelly, Sedona, etc.”
John Urian

22. New York City

“New York City. with tickets to Food for Thought lunchtime theatre productions.”
Jane

“New York City would come Third..ain’t been there either!”
Andy Mathisen

“I have lived all over the USA and the best places to visit are Charleston,SC, San Francisco, Napa/Sonoma, and New York City.”
Katherine Rogers

“New York City – hands down. Better than Paris, London, Rome, etc. And if you need a beach break go to Jones Beach on Long Island.Fabulous!”
Bobbie Kunath

23. North Carolina

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

24. North Dakota

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

25. Ohio

“A Road Trip to northeastern Ohio, specifically Wayne County and Holmes County. Holmes County is mostly Amish, and very scenic and peaceful, a beautiful area for driving slowly. Beautiful farms, horse-drawn buggies, etc.”
Pam

26. Oregon

“There’s so much to see, that there’s no one answer. A perfect vacation is different enough from home to be an adventure, but not so strange that you feel threatened or actually are harmed. That being said, Redwoods parks in California and Oregon most specifically, but the coastal pacific northwest as a whole.”
R. Keyes

27. Orlando

“I love to go from my Southern California home playground to Orlando and play golf and play at Disneyworld like the big old kid I am, but as you say, the US is a big old place, so there are many, many delightful places to choose.”
Lynn Glover

28. Pacific Coast

“I have lived in California for 40 years and traveled all over the world. The Pacific coastline is as beautiful as anything I have seen anywhere. From the Mexican border to the Canadian, it’s one glorious site after another.”
Suzanne

29. Rockies

“Any of the national parks along the Rocky spine. Oh beautiful, for spacious skies, etc.”
Ed Tarney

“Drive slowly down the Rockies, in springtime, from Glacier NP to Santa Fe.”
Barry Brill

30. San Francisco

“I have lived all over the USA and the best places to visit are Charleston,SC, San Francisco, Napa/Sonoma, and New York City.”
Katherine Rogers

“No question. San Francisco.”
David Erickson

31. Seattle

“We have at least 12 favorites, starting with: North Carolina mountains, Vail and Aspen, Berkshires, Miami and other Florida beaches, northern California (coast, San Francisco and Yosemite), and Seattle and the San Juan islands. Impossible to select one of these.”
Dave Lieberman

32. South Dakota

“To the “Black Hills” of South Dakota. In the Spring and Fall there really are not too many visitors!!”
Henry D.

33. Sun Valley, Idaho

“Sun Valley, Idaho.”
Jane

34. Texas

“San Antonio, Texas.”
Joe Favaro

35. Traverse City, Michigan

“Traverse City, Michigan. Especially between Christmas and New Years. Yes, believe it or not.”
Jane

36. Utah

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

“The American Southwest especially the area around the four corners of Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, and Arizona. Monument Valley, Mesa Verde National Park, Antelope Canyon, Canyon de Chelly, Sedona, etc.”
John Urian

37. Vermont

“Vermont or the California Coast.”

Jean

38. Washington, DC

“Washington, DC. A concentrated compendium of everything this country is about. As interesting per square foot an anyplace in the US.”
Ed Tarney

39. Wyoming

“Last October we did a bus trip through the Magestic National Parks – North Dakota, Wyoming, Utah, Arizona, and Colorado. I’ve been all over the world and those areas in the fall are as spectular as Norway, Egypt, Greece, New England, and South America. There is nothing that compares to the Grand Canyon or Canyonlands National Park. We just don’t appreciate what we have here in the U.S.”
Sharon Clay

40. Yellowstone

“Combine Yellowstone Natl Park for its animals, geology and excitement with the peace and serenity of the National Bison Range outside Missoula MT. Yellowstone is truly one of the great places of the world, but it has lots of people during prime viewing season. After enjoying the fun and excitement, move about an hour west and find rolling hills and easily viewed wildlife (bison, elk, deer, etc) in an area visited by very few.”
Carol

41. Yosemite

“We love going to Yosemite National Park in the winter – X-Country skiing out from Glacier Point Road’s Badger Pass ski area to Dewey Point, and overnighting at the ski hut, enjoying the home cooked meals there, spending a day skiing, and after X-country skiing back (a fifteen mile round trip)then shuttle busing down to the valley for a hot bath and restful night in one of Camp Curry’s rustic cabins. There’s always a chance to hike a bit to view the falls of ice (not so much water in the winter)over the stupendous walls of rock, and enjoy the views of meadows and river.

We always finish with an elegant Sunday brunch or just plain breakfast in the Ahwahnee’s huge dining room overlooking Yosemite’s winter meadows.

There’s a train and bus to Yosemite, and, of course, in the park a shuttle bus around the valley and to the ski area, but we like to gather some family and carpool to the valley for this annual adventure.

Advance reservations are a must, whether it’s for a heated tent, cabin or hotel room at Camp Curry, the Yosemite Lodge or the Ahwahnee.”
Gila

Did you agree or disagree with these suggestions?

Or have you got a favorite that’s not mentioned?

Just leave you’re suggestions in the comments box below…

1. Are you tired of catching colds while traveling?

Take along a travel-sized package of Clorox wipes. Disinfect the tray table and armrests on the airplane, and the telephone and TV remote in your hotel room.

William Alabaster,
Rochester, N.Y.

2. Keep your passport information handy

On international flights I used to fumble through my belongings—often having to retrieve them from the overhead bin—after a flight attendant appeared with the landing card, (I don’t know of many people who have their passport number and date of issue memorized.) Now I write all my information on the bookmark of whatever I plan to read on the long flights so I don’t have to dig out my passport. I can then fill out the card quickly—giving me more time to loan my pen to people who never seem to carry one.

Wendy Anderson, Orange, Conn.

3. Don’t toss out old prescription glasses

Whenever my husband and I get news of eyeglasses, we relegate the old ones to our luggage, along with an inexpensive repair kit from the drugstore. If something happens while we’re away from home, we can hopefully fix the glasses ourselves. If they’re beyond saving, we have the backup pairs to get us through the rest of the trip.

Wayne Babcock, Chandler, Ariz.

4. Even the disposable-camera lenses should be protected

They scratch just like any other lens would. Place a small piece of painter’s tape (or another that won’t stick too much) over the lens to protect it from contact with other items in your purse of backpack during travel.

Ursalene Baker, Santa Cruz, Calif. Suzanne Barr, San Diego, Calif.

5. Secure any small electronics to a bag

I’m a gadget freak and I don’t like to travel without things like my digital camera and my iPod. On one trip though, I put my camera down in a crowded restaurant and then, distracted, forget to put it back in my bag. By the time I remembered where I’d left it, the camera was long gone. Now, I attach those kinds of items to my daypack with a lanyard. They’re still easy pull out and use, and they never get left behind.

Susan Beagle, Fort Lauderdale, Fla.

Got a travel tip? Leave it in the comment’s box below…

At nearly 4,000,000 square miles in area, nobody can deny that the United States is a big old place…

…but where’s your favourite place to take a vacation?

Reply with your suggestion in the comments box below…

1. The 100 best places to live in America

We all know traveling’s great, but let’s be honest, we’re going to be spend the vast majority of our time at home. So it stands to reason, why not make sure you’re living in the best place you can be.

To help you decide, CNN have released a list of the 100 best places to live in America.

Check out the 100 best places to live in America here >>

2. The 9 best train journey’s in the world

Are you sick of the fast and sanitized version of modern travel?

Well next time, why not slow down and take step back in time by embarking on a great train journey, just like the travelers of yesteryear.

Check out the 9 best train journey’s here >>

3. 10 tips for resolving a travel complaint

Nothing can take the rose-tinted glow off your vacation memories better than a long drawn-out complaint negotiation with some travel company.

If you do need to make a complaint then you should follow these tips to do it as efficiently as possible…

Check out 10 tips for resolving a travel complaint here >>

4. 50 travel magazines that want to publish your travel writing

So, you hated your English teacher at school, and the idea of having to write an essay now brings you out in cold sweats, but the truth is, if you say to people at parties you’re a travel writer, you will appear to be glamorous, attractive and perhaps a little bit dangerous.

So, stick two fingers up to your old English teacher and prepare for a Hemmingwayesque-style future as a travel writer (hopefully without the same unfortunate ending)…

Check out 50 travel magazines that want to publish your travel writing here >>

1. How not to get confused by the time difference

Regarding time zones. I wear a watch when I travel internationally that has two faces. I set one for my home time and the other to the time zone where I will be traveling. That way, if I want to call home, I do not wake a family member up in the middle of their sleep night and I always know what time it is in the country where I am traveling. These watches are not expensive and can be purchased online from Magellan’s or Travel Smith.

Thanks…

Shirley B. Vanderbeck

2. How to give your luggage a better chance of finding you again if lost

Place an itinerary in every suitcase or item that may be hung up or that you carry:

• Name, local address and phone number
• Departing from/ to, airline, flight number and time
• Returning from/to, same as above
• Name of hotel, address, phone number and the dates you will be there.

Anon

3. Why you should own a “carry-on” bag rather than rely on your purse

Instead of carrying a purse on flights, I use a large canvas beach bag and pack the empty purse. Airlines consider it to be a “personal item” and it holds a lot more than a purse. I put light items in the bag and heavier items in the carry-on. I can fit a lot more in my carry-on that way and the bag does double-duty as a shopping bag once I reach my destination.

4. How to never be cold on a flight again

I’m always cold on planes so I bought an inexpensive shawl. It’s easy to stuff into a carry-on and keeps my hands and arms free

Anon

5. How to easily keep paying your bills while you’re overseas

Because my husband and I often travel for two months at a time away from home, I have set up most of our household and personal bills to be paid on line. In that way, I am alerted by e-mail from wherever I am in the world, and with a few clicks of the mouse, can make my payment directly from my checking account. I simply print the payment confirmation and on return home enter it into my checkbook. Nothing is ever late.

Nancy Matzdorff Los Angeles, CA USA

If you have a travel tip to share, please leave it in the comments box below…

OK, OK, I know bringing politics into things is a risky thing to do…

…but I think the choice of Barack Obama will be seen by many people around the world as a positive thing, and help reduce any anti-American feelings other nationalities may have.

Do you agree?

Leave your comments below…

All 5 of this month’s tips were provided by Mobal Member, Sally Williams

1. How to pack efficiently

Pack in threes: one on, one clean and one dirty.

2. A quick test to see if you’ve packed too much

A person can live for a month in a carry-on. Any one should be able to lift their suit case over their head and walk around a block or up stairs without using the wheels.

3. A short cut to washing clothes on the go

Wash your clothes while in the shower. A little foot stomping does wonders.

4. How to avoid looking like you’re carry anything worth stealing

In addition to no fanny packs, no vests with multiple pockets and no around-the-neck passport holders. (You can get pulled down with them and they are easy to snip. Same with back packs with loops ) Wear a waist money belt inside your clothing. Carry your sweater and water in a local plastic bag you buy or get at a local market. I sometimes carry an envelope with cash small amounts to use in markets or on the buses.

5. Who you should avoid opening your hotel door to

Don’t answer a hotel room door for a “policeman” plumber, etc. Call the desk to see if they sent someone.

If you have a travel tip to share, leave it in the comments below…

Here’s what Mobal Members’ had to say on the subject…

1. You can’t possibly fool the natives that you are one of them

“You can’t possibly fool the natives that you are one of them, and fooling the other tourists is not the reason you are there, so why bother to be a “poser”?

If you don’t try to fake it, and act like a visitor who appreciates being there, including letting the natives know that you are interested in their home and you came here because you wanted to learn about it, then you will almost always have a better time than if you insist on trying to be self-sufficient – as if there is any book that could imbue you with the character of a native!

If you learn to say a passable “please,” “thank you,” “yes,” “no,” and “sorry, I don’t speak (xxx language), could you help me,” and if you also act like your mother taught you to act whenever you are a guest, you should be able to get along splendidly.

Of course, if you actually take 10 minutes to read the guidebook chapter about local history & culture, so that you can ask about it, you will win even more local brownie points.

Every minute you spend trying to be a native is a minute you don’t have to see the sights you came to see in the first place, for business or for pleasure.

Life is too short to not enjoy it in the quickest & fullest way possible.”

Ed Tarney
Chief Product Metallurgist

2. No matter how much I try to blend in they always seem to know I am a tourist

“I spend usually about 4 weeks a year in Europe. No matter how much I try to blend in they always seem to know I am a tourist (I do not carry a camera, do not talk and such but they do know). I have no worries about pic-pockets and such. I just exercise the same cautions that I would always do when traveling.”

Mike

3. One dead give away is men’s shoes, and I’m not talking sneakers

“Despite trying to blend in, North Americans seem to be easily identifiable. One dead give-away is men’s shoes, and I’m not talking sneakers. European men wear entirely different kinds of shoes than North American men, and socks as well. When in doubt, I always check out the shoes first.

There is some downside to trying to blend in in some places, especially if it means you have to wear plaid and stripes together, or sandals with socks.

Even in high fashion areas, American styles are usually a year or two behind, so we are out of date no matter how hard we try to look good.

Bottom line, you need a combination approach. It will probably never really be possible to blend in, but you shouldn’t try to stand out either. Never, never wear sneakers, and leave those baseball hats, jeans and sweatshirts at home if you want to play down your tourist status.”

Carol Shaw
Southbury, CT

4. My biggest concern is anti-American sentiment and the possibility of becoming a target

“Sometimes it’s not possible to totally blend in, thanks to language difficulties. But I do my best not to stand out. My biggest concern is anti-American sentiment and the possibility of becoming a target.

I must be relatively good at looking German. The last time I was there, on at least 3 occasions German nationals came up and started talking to me… in German. I’ve been studying the language, but I’m not good enough to pass as a native-speaker! My blank looks gave me away.”

Linda Jones

5. I sometimes find myself downright disgusted with “ugly Americans” who don’t even try to meet people in other cultures half way

“I think it’s important for Americans to blend in as much as possible when travelling outside the U.S. In some places, it’s impossible, such as where locals are, in general, of a different skin color or skin tone.

In other places, it’s worth a try to blend in, and in such places (e.g., Western Europe), if they can’t blend in, they should at least make the effort to speak a few words of the local language (French, Italian, etc.), no matter how imperfectly. They’ll be amazed at how much their effort will be appreciated.

I sometimes find myself downright disgusted with “ugly Americans” who don’t even try to meet people in other cultures half way. It’s little wonder we’re sometimes so reviled by others around the world.”

Betty Sheldon

6. Only a jerk, like a Paris Hilton, would try to stand out

“Only a jerk, like a Paris Hilton, would try to stand out when one should behave as would be expected of a guest. This is, of course, not even considering the foolishness of indentifying ones self as a potential target or patsy.”

Lynn Glover

7. It is offensive to walk around with a wrist watch that costs more than most people make in a year

“I try to blend in as much as possible though when you have a camera on hand people know you are a tourist. I see it as much as minimizing barriers to being accepted by people I meet.

It is especially important in poorer countries where I think it is offensive to walk around with a wrist watch that costs more than most people make in a year. There are also cultural sensibilities that should be observed as with women not bearing their legs in many very Catholic countries in Central and South America, unless they don’t mind being mistaken for a prostitute.”

Cheers,
Bruce Stenman

8. I vote “Blend in”

“Hi
I vote “Blend in”

Case in point: Recent events in Mumbai.

As an American, I enjoy it a lot when I am addressed in the native language of the country which I am visiting! It let’s me know that, at least occasionally, my wife and/or I really succeed in blending in. Long pants and leather shoes go a long way toward blending! And, avoiding excessively loud voices sure helps too!”

GMG

9. As a single woman traveling alone, I find it safer NOT to stand out

“In this time of Post-9/11, it is very difficult to define yourself as an American in Europe.

When I stayed in London for a month in October of 2006, I was clearly told NOT to wear any clothes with an American symbol or statement on it. London? I couldn’t believe it! I WANTED to wear clothes with the American Flag or New York or Hollywood on it. I took a couple of pieces with me, but ended up wearing very neutral clothes and finding myself trying to blend in. The only way anyone knew I was NOT British was when I spoke…

As a single woman traveling alone, I find it safer NOT to stand out and NOT to wear anything with a statement. I get around as if someone is expecting me. I ask questions or directions in a safe environment. I make friends with the Security Staff at the Hotel I am staying at. I make friends with the Front Desk to keep track of my arrivals and departures. I make friends with the Concierge. It’s incredible how much these people will help you! With the right attitude, people will open up to you and offer their assistance in any way.

This year I spent two weeks in Tallinn, Estonia for a Feature Film Premiere. Even today when the Baltic Countries live in fear of Soviet Rule, I was honored to be an American and stood out from the crowds. Meanwhile, I dressed conservatively and showed incredible respect and gratitude to the locals. In Estonia, America represents Hope and Freedom.

Any Country you visit, be discreet, show respect, and don’t give the locals a chance to call us “Ugly Americans.” I find visiting ANY Country a privilege, not a right.”

Solange of Hollywood

10. Why go to the fashion capital of the world, and basically spit in their face?

“My vote is for blending in. I feel it shows respect toward the country you’re visiting.

I was in Paris a few years ago, and I did my best to blend. Everyone I encountered was polite, even though my French was limited. I had a couple of friends visit Paris just a couple of months ago, and they thought everyone was horribly rude, as they spoke no French.

I thought this was odd, until I saw their vacation photos- they were horribly dressed- baggy sweats, baseball caps, white tennis shoes, fanny pack.

Why go to the fashion capital of the world, and basically spit in their face?”

Barbie Mccomick

11. I have been pawed by pickpocket gangs in Prague and scammed by pros in Rome

“I don’t concern myself with either “standing out or blending in”. In most of Europe ordinary street dress in the US puts you in similar appearance as the locals, it’s the cameras, gawking, and map reading that set you apart and that’s all part of being a tourist isn’t it?

I have been pawed by pickpocket gangs in Prague and scammed by pros in Rome but I know how to protect my valuables (passport, credit cards), let them steal a few worthless objects (tissue packages, business cards), and be on our separate ways before they realize they have been scammed! On the other hand I was asked by a tourist if I objected to having my picture taken while savoring a midnight snack of cheese and wine along the Seine – she even complimented me on my excellent English!

You are a tourist so you have to expect to be asked to pay the “tourist price”, that is how some people earn a living, is that bad? When you are shopping in Budapest, Beijing, or Bali you should have some idea of your personal value of your proposed purchase – don’t compare it to what a local might pay, they probably don’t shop for the item – how much would you pay for it at Pier 1 back home? If you are in a bargaining culture, is it OK to just keep driving the price down like a game or make the purchase if you get it to the price you were
willing to pay?

Soaking up the culture of the place has little to do with your appearance, it is an attitude item. Do you seek out local places to eat and drink? Do you try to converse with people on the train or tram? Do you insist on only patronizing places that speak perfect English or are you willing to engage in friendly “point and grunt” requests in order to try something different? Are you willing to laugh at yourself for your cultural faux pas – I am always apologizing in shops in France for failing to begin with “Bonjour . . . ” , am forgiven for my “typical American” insensitivity, and usually afforded pleasant service afterwards. I love to discuss political issues when they are brought into a conversation and I do not feel obligated to either defend or be critical of the USA – I want to hear different perspectives and offer my own.

I try to operate on a philosophy a dear friend and Citizen of the World imparted to me many years ago, “Different isn’t bad, it’s just different.”

Richard Pilgrim

12. I try to blend in as much as possible. Although it seldom works

“I try to blend in as much as possible. Although it seldom works, I think it is the best idea to minimize unwanted attention to your status as a possible target for crime, sales pitches, etc.

I never dress to impress but in some countries unfortunately that calls you out right away as an outsider. But I still go for comfort although I also minimize cameras, fanny packs, shorts when everyone else wears pants, etc.”

Rich O.
St. Louis, Mo.

13. I just try to not make it painfully aware that I’m not a native

“I think the most important thing is to NOT be an ugly American, or an ugly representative of whatever country you hail from. Even if you were to wear only clothing, hairdos and skin tones native to the area you are visiting, it would still be obvious you’re not from around there. You have a camera, a carrying bag of some sort, guide books, street maps, etc.

So you will stand out no matter what you do. I just try to not make it painfully aware that I’m not a native, and I try to be a good representative of my homeland and of humanity.”

Anon

14. The greatest compliment I can get while traveling in a foreign country is being asked directions in the local language

“The greatest compliment I can get while traveling in a foreign country is being asked directions in the local language…people think I belong!

Having the physical attributes of a German or other Western and Easter European native helps.

My ancestry is German, so I physically blend in in Europe. (in Asia of course I stick out like a sore thumb) Wearing darker colors, good leather shoes, scarves, or sedate jewellery is always a good idea, and helps one blend in.

When I prepare my clients for a European trip, and they ask what colors or clothing to bring, I say black, black, and black.

Back Packs, white tennis shoes and loud voices earmark an American tourist right away. Americans talk and laugh way to loud. They point, and chatter like magpies in museums, and chew gum a lot. Americans are always rushing to get to the next place, the next activity, or the next shop. They forget to slow down and enjoy the moment, the place, and the atmosphere. they miss so much!

So, if you want to blend in, slow down, speak quietly, and dress conservatively, and take each moment of your trip as a treasure.”

Judith Berger ACC | Travel Leaders

15. It isn’t worth it to be such stand outs, that local folks sneer at you!

“I’m under no illusion that locals don’t know I’m a tourist/traveler, but I try to not be too conspicuous, just because it’s easier to interact with people if one isn’t too out of sync with the folks you’re visiting.

For instance, I leave the baseball caps, Bermuda shorts, stretch pants and loud voice at home.

I also hide and protect my guide book with a local newspaper cover that I put on myself. And I try to learn the money and a few phrases of the language of the country I’m visiting before I arrive.

I once saw a huge crowd gather about some “hippies” with dyed, ‘fro hair, dressed in local ragged clothes, in India, where the people pointed, laughed, even hooted, exhibiting rude behavior that was a bit intimidating.

It isn’t worth it to be such stand outs, that local folks sneer at you!”

Gila

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